Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Aaron's Birthday.....Mom's beware!

Yesterday was my love's 36th birthday. Can you believe we have been dating since he was 21?
He is absolutely one of the best men I have ever known (I think I am surrounded by the rest of the greatest guys). I am so proud to have him as my husband.
I must admit that I am a little Type A, I like everything perfect and planned. As you all know my life has been anything but,
But, I keep on working at it.
I insist that my husband buy my card days before my birthday, and I am normally so planned.
But this year was unlike any other I woke up to forgetting for a moment that it was Aaron's birthday. Why? I have no idea. Then it hits me like a ton of bricks. I am broken and a new person I must be.
My poor mom called me at that moment while I was loosing all control and I know it must break her to hear my cries. Parents want to make it all better, but they can't.
(No daddy mud will fix this.....although it has fixed a lot and is a miracle mud)
It is still a daily choice and sometime minute by minute choice to go on.
I held a beautiful and fun party to celebrate my incredible husband.
There is no one I would rather have by my side for the rest of my life & eternity.

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